[CHORE] update dependencies, unsafe pip packages, fastapi (#1609)

* d

* middleware needs to be initialised before startup

runs on python3.11

update secp256k1

update psycopg

* update fastapi to v0.103

* fix webpush

* bump dependencies

* ruff issue

* lock versions

* bump versions

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Co-authored-by: jacksn <jkranawetter05@gmail.com>

lnbits/core/crud.py

@@ -571,7 +571,7 @@ async def create_payment(
             fee,
             (
                 json.dumps(extra)
-                if extra and extra != {} and type(extra) is dict
+                if extra and extra != {} and isinstance(extra, dict)
                 else None
             ),
             webhook,