Replace manualProviders.ts with a paymentProviders.ts registry
(automatic vs manual settlement) and move all seat counting into
capacity.ts as the single source of truth: only paid/checked-in tickets
and pending_approval payments hold a seat, so abandoned checkouts never
block sales. Admins can now knowingly approve a payment over capacity
(allowOverCapacity), with the booking and admin UIs updated to match.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
